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Wayfinder
Finding Your Way Through the Chaos
There are seasons when life stops making sense.
For the past 8 years I have been on a journey to answer one Quest(ion).
How do I come alive again?
I have explored eros, embodiment, philosophy, psychology, anthropology, nervous system science, and poetic truth to find answers.
Here's what I learnt: Our stories aren't wounds. They're roles we are still playing. The high-achiever who proves worth through exhaustion. The caretaker who earns love through self-abandonment. The healing person whose entire sense of self requires staying broken. We've become competent at being the person our stories require us to be. And that competence is the cage.
When the things that once felt solid - work, love, identity - start to unravel.
You know something needs to change, but you can’t yet see what comes next.
Wayfinder is a coaching journey for exactly this place - the confusion, chaos, or crossroads. You bring whatever’s alive in the moment: the burnout, the conflict, the guilt, the “I don’t know who I am anymore.”
Together, we learn to listen beneath the noise to what your body and truth are really asking for.
Through conversation, reflection, and nervous-system-aware practices, we navigate what’s here until clarity starts to rise.
Where the questions aren't 'How do I fix this?' but:
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"Why did I believe this needed fixing?"
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“What does this version of me protect me from feeling?
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"Where am I still asking for permission and calling it ‘being responsible’?"
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"If pleasure is a language, what has my body been trying to say, that my mind keeps overruling?”
In our work together, we don't focus on your wounds. We examine your loyalty to the identity you've constructed around them, because the most dangerous cage is the one you've learned to navigate perfectly.
Pain is information. Power is choice. Pleasure is a language.
Every Wayfinder package ends with The Book of You: a personalised, co-created reflection of your process. It gathers your insights, values, and embodied truths into a single place. A compass you can return to when life gets noisy. For couples, it becomes The Book of Us. A shared language and map for navigating your relationship with honesty and care.
This is not about finding yourself. It’s about remembering who you’ve been all along and learning to live from there.
Ways to Work Together
Pathways for your season of change.
Whether you come as an individual or a couple, for a long term experience or a once off sense-making session, each journey meets you where you are helping you move from confusion to clarity, from braced to grounded, from lost to home.
The initial consultation is an opportunity for us to see if what I offer is something that would be suitable for you. Its a way for us both to ensure that we vibe.
The Wayfinder Single Sessions are once off sessions. They are 90minutes long and allow you to book and pay as and when you feel you need one. It's very flexible and doesn't tie you into a contract or time commitment. You will receive the session notes and summary withing 48hours of the session.
The Wayfinder Journey is a High-touch 1:1 coaching experience that spans a minimum of 3months. It includes:
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2 x 90 minute private coaching sessions per month over 3 months
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Written session reports with insights
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Personalised rituals & reflective prompts
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Private WhatsApp voice + text support (Monday–Friday)
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Access to the private Endeavors whatsapp community (non-coaching)
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Access to all Somatic Spellwork experiences at no extra cost
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Access to all Events at no cost online or in-person
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A Book of YOU: A hand-crafted keepsake using the insights and session summaries capturing your stories, values, patterns, and exercises. Each page is co-written and designed to hold your becoming: your values, rituals, body wisdom, and reminders of what steadies you when life gets loud. It’s not a workbook to fill out or a theory to study. It’s your story, your breakthroughs, your direction - a living artifact of your own making.
What is
Wayfinder?
Why It Matters:
What it feels like:
What You’ll Receive
This is the phase of presence.
The world might tell you to "figure it out."
To pick a direction.
To get on with it.
But you feel hesitation,
Or resistant!
This part matters.
This pause. This breath. This tender in-between.
Wayfinding is a private coaching experience for those learning to stay with what’s true - without rushing to rebuild.
It’s for the ones who want to move forward with integrity, not urgency.
This part matters because it names what almost no one is willing to say out loud:
That real transformation isn’t shiny.
It isn’t a straight line.
And it definitely isn’t a five-step process to clarity.
This part - the No-Thingness, the fog, the disorientation, the dissolving - is the exact moment most people either abandon themselves, or look for the nearest performance mask to put back on.
But this space?
This raw, un-naming space? It’s where the true work happens.
You’re not broken - just a bit undone.
Uncertain. Quietly falling apart.
And no one tells you that’s allowed.
No one says that the mess and confusion might actually be sacred - that losing your way doesn’t mean you’ve failed.
It might just mean you’re finally on your way home.
You don’t have to have it all figured out.
You can be unsure, tired, or in-between — and still be okay.
Sometimes what you need isn’t a plan, but a safe space to breathe while you remember who you are.
Wayfinder is the torch in the dark, for the ones who fear they’ve lost their way, when really, they’ve just begun the journey back to themselves.
It's not a detour.
It’s the door.
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Wayfinder is a private coaching journey (for individuals or couples) designed to help you find steady ground in the midst of change.
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Each session is 90 minutes and completely tailored to what’s alive in your world whether that’s burnout, conflict, guilt, or simply not knowing who you are anymore.
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Between sessions, you’ll have access to gentle voice-note support to help you integrate what we uncover together.
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You’ll also receive your own Book of You (or Book of Us for couples). A personalised, co-created keepsake that captures your stories, values, rituals, and insights. It becomes a compass you can return to when life gets loud.
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You’ll leave with clarity you can feel in your body, tools to calm your system, and language to navigate what’s next at your own pace, and in your own truth.
